Rebuild trust & emotional intimacy using our simple online marriage programs

Feel close, connected, loved, and cherished without years of counseling.

Programs For Couples

Relationship Roadmap

Enjoy deeper connection, better communication, and faster and easier conflict resolution.

Six Secrets to a Secure Marriage

Every successful marriage has learned how to master these six areas in their marriage.

Fondness & Admiration Email Series (FREE)

Rebuild love & friendship with this 30-day email program.

Want to enjoy

  • Deeper connection,
  • Better communication,
  • Faster conflict resolution?

This 1-hour online course will show you how.

Want to enjoy

  • Deeper connection,
  • Better communication,
  • Faster conflict resolution?

This 1-hour online course will show you how.

Hi. We’re Paul & Shannon Elmore, the founders of Secure Marriage. (It’s nice to meet you!)

No matter how emotionally disconnected you feel right now, you can rebuild connection in your relationship.

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30 Years Happily Married

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18 Years as a Professional Counselor

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2 Masters Degrees in Counseling Psychology

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Hundreds of couples helped

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Researched Based Programs

“Your podcast has revolutionized the way we process difficulties!  After 19 years of marriage and 7 different counselors, we finally found exactly what we needed.”

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“I just wanted to thank you and your husband for your amazing and helpful podcast. Thank you for being real and honest, approaching topics that are hard but so common.”

Madison

Thank you for the honesty in your podcast. It helped me realise that there is hope and I’m not alone in going through this!

Charles

“Your books and podcast has made a tremendous difference in my behavior as a spouse.”

I love listening to y’all’s podcast because it makes me feel I’m not alone and that there is still hope for my relationship.

Elizabeth

I wanted to say a big thank you for all the work you have put into making this content and making it freely available. It has played a significant part in keeping our marriage afloat.

Matthew

“Paul, hearing you validate your wife’s feelings and thoughts are so eye opening that it gives me hope.”

Cody

“Your Fondness & Admiration series has saved our marriage.”

Debbie

Thank you for the amazing podcasts you make with Shannon. They are full of love and real feeling.

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